5 unnecessary worries that can ruin a happy relationship
Relationships can be difficult, but they don’t have to be. One of the things that makes them difficult is when people worry obsessively over things they probably shouldn’t.
What people worry about varies from person to person, but here are 5 common things that a lot of people stress about.
Do any of these sound like you? Worrying that
1. Your partner might cheat
Everyone wants to be their partner’s “one and only,” right? Somewhere, deep inside (or not so deep), we think that once we’re in our relationship, our boyfriend/girlfriend won’t even notice anyone else but us. But let’s think about this for a minute. No one becomes blind to attractive people in the world just because they start dating someone. It’s pretty normal, actually. But not everyone acts on their attraction. The important thing to do is work on your self-esteem so that you think that if your partner wanted to cheat on you, then you are too good for them and you wouldn’t want them anyway.
2. Your partner might break up with you
Again, like I just said in the fist point, fearing that your boyfriend or girlfriend might dump you is rooted in low self-esteem. Plus, it’s just wasted negative energy. If you feel good about yourself, then you wouldn’t worry about them breaking up with you. You should think that you’re a real catch. Because you are! Have the attitude that your partner is lucky to have you. That way, you won’t put all those negative emotions out there and ruin the relationship.
3. You’re not good enough for the partner
Okay, you are going to start seeing a theme here. Self-esteem, self-esteem, self-esteem!! It all comes down to having good self-esteem!! If you think you’re not good enough for your partner, why do you think this? Do you think you’re too fat? Too short? Too uneducated? Too poor? Too shy? Too unattractive? And the list goes on. Well, get over it! Realize that you are good enough for your partner. I’ve heard many people say that the most attractive quality in a person is self-confidence. So, if a super model is unsure of herself, many men would find her “less attractive.” Conversely, if an average, overweight person exudes self-love and confidence, that is much more attractive to people.
4. Your partner is not good enough for you
Or, maybe you have too much self-esteem. Okay, I think that’s an oxymoron. But, there is a fine line between having self-confidence and being egotistical. Actually, people who come across as egotistical don’t really love themselves. They just want to appear like they do, which is why they put so much effort into having other people focus on them. However, with that said, you need to accept and love your partner for who they are. Everyone is perfect in their own way. But that doesn’t mean that everyone is perfect for you. If you don’t feel like the two of you are a good match, then move on! A happy relationship comes from compatibility and equality.
5.Your partner’s friends and family don’t like you
Are you a horrible person? Probably not! If they don’t like you, then one of three things are going on: (1) you really are a horrible person (probably not!), they are a bad judge of character (maybe), or (3) they are just very, very different people than you are (think extrovert vs. introvert or overly intellectual vs. not so much). And honestly, 3 is probably the most likely. So it’s no big deal then, right? So what if you’re different? If everyone was the same, then the world would be a very boring place.
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