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5 traits of a toxic friend

5 common traits of a toxic friend

It’s not spring yet, but it’s never too early to do some spring cleaning of the people you hang out with.

The thing is, every friendship you have is inevitably going to affect you, and change you, in a good way or in a not-so-good-way.

And everyone of us is guilty of having a couple of unhealthy friendships with people who aren’t really doing us much good — people who, instead of making us happier and better beings, are doing the reverse. I these people, “toxic friends.”

Check out the following list to identify a possibly toxic friend in your life:

1. A toxic friend uses you

When they need you, they tend to be nicer and more polite to you. They trick you into thinking that they have changed for the better, but the truth is, they are only putting on a facade so that they can manipulate you. And you on the other hand, thinking that things are finally getting better, decide to be helpful and do their bidding. But after they get what they want from you, they quickly revert to their old self. They don’t text, they don’t call, they stop caring about you,

2. A toxic friend likes to keep score and bring up past mistakes

To make you feel bad, they will remind you of embarrassing things and stupid mistakes you’ve made in the past. They never forgive and they never forget. They will dig up things from the past and use them against you whenever they see a need to. It’s their easiest ammunition during a fight or a disagreement. With this friend around, it’s so much harder to move on from past pains and mistakes.

3. A toxic friend loves drama

There are people who drama and then there are those who live to create it. With a toxic friend around, your life is often filled with unnecessary emotional turbulence, caused by unnecessary fights, careless bitching, and just being passive aggressive to people in general. You might even notice that this need for drama starts to rub off on you and slowly, you start to feel empty without having a little drama to add some spice to your day-to-day life.

4. A toxic friend takes you for granted

At some point along the way, this type of friend starts to take you for granted. He or she may have stopped contributing into the relationship while you still continue to do so. If you find yourself making the effort to keep the friendship going, planning evenings out, being the first one to instigate a conversation or stay in touch while they sit on the sidelines and do nothing, then perhaps it’s time for you to let go.

5. A toxic friend rarely celebrates with you

Because they also see you as competition and are jealous when they know that you’re doing better than they are. Perhaps, they never wish that you’ll succeed in life in the first place, even though they say that they only hope for the best for you. When you have something to celebrate about, they are the first to throw you a cold blanket. On top of dismissing your good news, they might even some bad news to truly kill your buzz.

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